more… Cheyenne Weaver’s Gilded Simplicity, 3. Here are the four PILLARS of good Party Architecture: Density, Structure, Lighting Flow. Why? more.. Everyone was impressed by the colors, the windows, and the furniture. more… Erin Danny Living Together in Only 500 Square Feet House Tour, 2 5. Thinking about throwing a holiday party, but are worried about it being blah? Here’s Party Architecture to the rescue… Personally, I think that the guest list is the most important element of a good party, BUT after that, if you have nothing else, go for good drinks and great lighting. Everything else will fall into place. I got together with an old friend in 2007 and put together this simple primer, which we’ve been updating and collecting comments on ever since. Take it from Neil, lighting is essential when creating the right mood at your party. Last night two friends threw their first party since they finished renovating.